Aug 29

I arrived home mid-morning yesterday. Can’t really say that I am happy to be back. The trip was way too much fun, and as crazy as it was, it was way too relaxing. I enjoyed not caring if I was clean, not worrying (too much) about safety as we did crazy things, only caring where the next curry might come from.

The adventure started very, very early on Monday morning. Debra arrived about 1 am and our flight to Phnom Penh was scheduled for 6:45 am. So we had about 3 hours between airport trips. There was not much sleeping. First stop in the airport was the coffee shop, which conveniently had free foot massage machines. We took advantage and as we caffeinated and we massaged. The flight was pretty empty, so we were able to get our own rows for stretching out. We were pretty giddy at the start, but each managed to snooze a tiny bit on the flight.

Thanks to the one hour time difference, we arrived in Phnom Penh, just after 7 am. We got to our guest house, navigated the crazy stair case (each stair was different height and width, luckily we managed not to kill ourselves on them) and settled in for a bit. After arranging our bus to Siem Reap for the next day, we negotiated a tuk tuk ride out to the Killing Fields at Choeung Ek.

The tuk tuk ride was a total adventure. Choeung Ek is outside of the city, so we had a long ride and almost hurt ourselves laughing. While cars mostly stay in their lanes, tuk tuks do not always follow the normal rules of the road. When making a right-turn, the tuk tuk would move into the on-coming traffic as it merged it’s way over to the right side of the road. At one T intersection, it was every vehicle for themselves; total madness. We eventually weaved our way through, only tapping into one moto, and headed down a wet, dirt road. It was a pretty steep drop and the tuk tuk slid a lot, once sliding into the moto in front of us (no one even bruised, but lots of laughter).

The Killing Fields are very depressing. Everyone walks around with a sombre expression, barely speaking. Near the entrance is a glass stupa filled with skulls recovered around Choeung Ek. You are encouraged to walk through the inside, and most visitors do, looking slightly ill and totally mortified. The silence in the stupa comes naturally as no one knows what to say, think or feel. After the stupa, you can wander through the grounds and see the holes left from the mass graves. There are signs indicating where the buildings once stood. As you walk along the back fence, there are cute children that will pose for photos for $1 and give you a well rehearsed speech of sorrow as they beg for more dollars. By the third child you know most of the lines of the speech yourself. Some kids are better at selling it than others, we took pity on two of the first boys we saw. All in all, it was a very depressing stop.

On our way back to the guest house, we heard what sounded like screaming kids coming up behind our tuk tuk. Turned out is was a truck full of pigs being taken to market. They were standing on each other up to about 3 deep (Do you still hear the screaming, the screaming of the lambs pigs?).

We negotiated with our driver to drive us all day for $10. Because our next stop was closed during lunch time, we stopped at our room and power napped for an hour before heading out to lunch and Toul Sleng Genocide Museum. Lunch was at the ever so cute, outdoor cafe Boddhi Tree, and the first of many, many curries.

The Khmer Rouge was very good at documenting the torture inflicted on their victims at S-21, a former school. In the first set of rooms you see where victims were tortured. Today you see the beds, the leg irons and maybe some of the items used to torture the victims. Each room contains a photo of a victim being tortured. I don’t even want to think about the stains that remained on the floors and walls. From the torture rooms, you moved to rooms and rooms of photos of the victims. As each prisoner arrived at Toul Sleng, they were photographed and documented. The documents were lost, but the photos remained behind and are now displayed as a reminder. There were a few boards of photos of very young children. I realised that those children were my age, or would have been had they not been systematically murdered. From the photos, you moved into the prison cells. There was a lot of history to read, but most of the museum was visual evidence of what occurred at the prison.

We had a bit of time left before everything closed and needed to lighten the day up, so we headed over to the Royal Palace and silver pagoda. We had about 30-45 min to run around the grounds and take in all the beauty.

At dinner time, we left to guest house to see that our tuk tuk driver was still hanging around outside, so for a few more dollars we had him take us to the river, to eat next to Tonle Sap. When we arrived, we were the only non-locals in the place. As the evening wore on, we laughed as we watched group after group of tourists walking in holding the same Lonely Planet book, their finger conveniently marking the page.

On the way home from dinner, with a different driver, our tuk tuk stalled. In the middle of the intersection. We jumped out and helped push it across the road. Luckily our driver got it started again and took us the few remaining blocks home.

It was a great day in Phnom Penh.


Aug 20

It is Wednesday at a little after 2 pm. We have finally sat down for lunch. This morning at 8 we headed out to the temples. We spent at least 2.5 hours at Angkor Wat, walking around. Next was the up and down and up and down of Bayon at Angkor Thom. Ta Prohm was third and really great. There we were really allowed to explore and we went through so many passage ways. With the heat and climbing we were starting to fade fast. A quick coke from on of the many kids and we were ready for the final temple, Preah Khan. After that we were done. No plans for today other than enjoying the slower pace of Siem Reap. Tomorrow we head for Koh Samui.

Aug 18

It is 2 am, met Debra at the airport an hour ago. We came back to my apartment so she could shower and we could relax for a few hours before going back to the airport. We fly to Phnom Penh, Cambodia at 6:45 am. It will be a crazy, crazy two weeks.

Monday - Phnom Penh - Going to Killing Fields museum and Toul Sleng (a former Khmer Rouge prison).
Tuesday - Bus between Phnom Penh and Siem Reap, then wander around Siem Reap for half the day.
Wednesday - Siem Reap and Angkor Wat
Thursday - Fly to Koh Samui, Thailand for half a day on the beach
Friday - Fly to Chiang Mai, Thailand after most of the day at Koh Samui beaches
Saturday - White Water rafting or going to see Hill Tribes or???
Sunday - Going to elephant rescue near Chiang Mai. Spend the day learning to care for elephants.
Monday - Whatever we didn’t do Saturday
Tuesday - Fly to Bangkok at ass crack of dawn, go to Grand Palace and whatever else
Wednesday - Go to floating markets and river Kwai to see where WWII prisoners were forced to build railroad and bridges.
Thursday - Back to Singapore for Debra to see more of Singapore than the road to and from the airport
Friday - Debra goes back to US, I sleep.

Jul 06

There is no doubt that my dad and I are a lot alike. But there are many ways in which I am like my mom. To prove that fact, we spent part of the Women’s Wimbledon Finals sending each other text messages. And now we’re doing the same during the Men’s Finals. I mean afterall, she’s getting the US broadcast and I’m getting the SE Asia broadcast, there could be different perspectives.

Jul 05

Because of some major yoga conference thingy in Hong Kong, the class schedule at my yoga studio was changed for the weekend. As a result I signed up for the 10:30 am class and not the 4 pm class; something I haven’t taken in many many months. It was actually quite nice. I was done at noon, decided to skip the shower at the studio, had no wait at the taxi queue and went straight to the shopping centre closest to my apartment. I first went to Cold Storage to grab some drinks and fruit, and then to Subway to grab a sandwich.

As I walked out of the centre it was pouring down rain. Those huge, torrential, tropical rains. I of course had no umbrella with me. I could have sat in the food court and had my sandwich, or even gone back into Subway. I knew the rain probably wouldn’t last that long, but I was tired, hungry, and truth be told still wet from sweating it out in hot yoga. So I shoved my leather purse into my grocery bags and started the walk home. I can’t remember the last time that I walked in the rain with no umbrella. It was awesome. I didn’t mind the car splashes or the puddles and I made no effort to get home quickly. I just enjoyed the really, really long, all natural shower.

May 27

On Friday night at beers we were discussing where we want to travel. On Sunday Debra sent me her list of places she wants to see.

I’ve been afraid to put my list in any real form of writing. Because the more I travel the more I want to travel. I’m afraid that by putting it on paper, or in list format it will grow even more crazy. But without much thought to it and in no order other than somewhat geographical, this is the list I dashed off (in about 20 min or less). I’m sure there is lots I’ve forgotten. And I added some places I’ve been but want to always visit again and again and again…

Asia
Japan – Kyoto, Mt Fuji (in August so I can climb to the top), Hiroshima
Vietnam – Hanoi, boat trip along Mekong
Laos
Cambodia – Phnom Penh (Killing Fields), Sihanoukville
Thailand – Krabi, Bangkok, Chiang Mai, Phuket again and again
Hong Kong
China – Chengdu or Wolong province (see Panda Bears, on hold now after earthquake), Great Wall
Borneo – See the Organ tans in Sabah
Indonesia – Bali
India – Taj Mahal
Maldives – Before they’re covered with water
Nepal – Trek to Mt Everest Base Camp and around to side where you can see all the way to the top
Philippines – So I can see all of ASEAN

Antarctica

Africa
Egypt – Cairo, Great Pyramids
Morocco - Casablanca, Marrakech
Kenya
South Africa – Kruger National Park, more time in Cape Town (touch Atlantic and Indian Ocean in same day
Rwanda – See Gorillas, http://www.responsibletravel.com/Trip/Trip100267.htm
Zambia – Victoria Falls, White water rafting on Zambezi

Oceania
Australia - Tasmania, South Australia, more than 15 min looking at Uluru, Sydney, Sydney, Sydney
New Zealand - http://www.ultimatehikes.co.nz/

South America
Peru - Lima, Machu Picchu
Chile - http://www.gochile.cl/eng/Guide/ChileNationalParks/TorresdelPaine/Torres-del-Paine-1.asp
Argentina – Patagonia
Brasil – Amazon, Rio
Costa Rica – White water rafting, snorkelling, whatever

North America
Cuba (first place I’m going once Americans allowed to go there, or I get a different passport)
Manitoba – See polar bears
Alaska
Rest of Eastern half of Canada

Europe
Germany – many, many places
Austria
Russia
Italy – Pompeii, Rome, Venice, Milan (for more than one night)
London – can visit hundreds of times and still love
Paris – can visit hundreds of times and still love
Belfast – return in a few years to see how it has changed as they continue to recover from the Troubles
Czech Republic - Prague
Greece- Athens
Hungary - Budapest
Croatia
Amsterdam
Sweden - The Ice Hotel

I wonder what the list would look like if I took time to think about it and do more research. Occasionally I’ll bookmark a website of somewhere I want to go and am afraid I’ll forget about. Those are included.

Update
I knew I’d forget a few places and of course they’ve been coming to me at random moments during the day.

Again in no particular order:
Spain - Running of the bulls
Madagascar
Mauritius
Fiji
Galapagos
France - Nice, Normandy, French Alps and WINE COUNTRY
Copper Canyon
Israel
Dubai
Bhutan
Tanzania - Mt Kilimanjaro
Belize
Glacier National Park
Spain - Barcelona, Bunol - Tomato fight, Madrid

Still know there are many more I am forgetting. Particularly in Africa.

Oh yeah. Travel bug is strong. This is why I try to avoid the Lonely Planet and Let’s Go Books in all bookstores.

May 20

It is 9 pm, I haven’t had a cocktail today, I must be home from holiday. And I am so not happy about that.

Phuket was absolutely wonderful. At 10 am Phuket time, when I arrived at my hotel, that 6 am alarm ringing was history. I was changed into the bikini, slathered in sunscreen and out to see things through my viewfinder in record time. I had picked a hotel in the south western area of Phuket. The monsoon weather comes from the south west so it meant there was no swimming on my direct beach. It also meant that my area was quiet and had way fewer inhabitants than some other areas of the island. In my initial walk around, there weren’t many people to be seen at all. A very, very, very, very nice change from Singapore. My hotel was FABULOUS! And again because of monsoon season, very few other occupants. That meant no fighting for the good pool chairs. It meant I got the same chair everyday. I was right next to the young couple from Jersey (UK Jersey, not New Jersey). They were next to the woman from Queensland. To my right were the French families, and around the corner to the left was the scary woman who had a finely leathered look to her. Everyday those were our chairs. No one dared interlope. Even if I spent all but one hour of Saturdays’ sun time touring and snorkeling around other islands, my pool chair was still vacant waiting, hoping for my return. I could even leave my stuff at my chair, go to my room, go to lunch at a nearby restaurant or make a soda run to the nearby store and I knew my stuff would be untouched on my return. And the pool people looked out for each other. We found the shop with the cheapest cokes, shared books, shared DVDs, shared eating place suggestions. We were in it together.

I long ago gave up trying to get a good margarita anywhere in Asia, but something made me order the one at the hotel. Perhaps it was the crazy cheap price, or the lounging in the sun all day, not really sure. But damn that thing was good. Tasted like an actual margarita, made with actual tequila. I had two with dinner. Two and I was good and done.

Saturday I wanted my ocean swim time so I booked a speedboat tour to Phi Phi Islands. You might recognise the area in my pictures from the movie “The Beach”. The coral areas we snorkeled around were not that good. Lots of bleaching, but the water was crystal clear and there were lots of colourful fishies to look at. No Nemo though. And!!!…there were MONKEYS!!! MONKEYS people. Many monkeys. On an area called Monkey beach, what are the odds of that? The tour guide was great too. I was the only one on the tour alone and the only one whose name he learned. On some other trips I’ve done people haven’t known how to treat the single person, but he made me feel more special and not alone at all. Yeah, I tipped at the end of the tour. Truly fabulous day in all.

Sunday was back to the pool, beach and wondering around the neighbourhood. Well, that and a bit more time at the spa. Who can resist cheap massages; cheap massages at 10% discount? Not I.

I really loved Phuket. Loved that I could just wander along and not get lost. Wander along and find great places to eat, great coffee shop, nice ice cream stand. Two guards outside a more upscale hotel would even snap to attention and salute as I passed. Did I pass more often than necessary just to be saluted? Quite possibly. God knows I loved the curry. Red curry snapper at lunch Friday. Green curry chicken at dinner Friday. Yellow curry prawns on Saturday. Red curry beef on Sunday night. Yellow curry chicken on Sunday night. So colourful, so awesome, so cheap. A good lunch or dinner was about 160-200 Baht for the main. That is about $6 US. Cocktails ranged from 99-200 Baht. I’m sure it would have been cheaper if I drank at the stand outside the market next to the hotel, but I opted for the hotel bar or the cute places near the hotel. I loved that when I would come back to the hotel there was an employee to ask me how my day was, ask where I’d been, just check up on me. And they were genuine when they asked. Can’t wait to go back.

Mar 24

There is no denying that I am my father’s daughter. In many ways I take after my mom, but tonight it really hit home (no pun intended, well maybe a little bit), how very much I am like my dad. Last night we started by exchanging emails about basketball. Spoiled and basketball obsessed dad took off to Arkansas to watch Texas play its first two NCAA tournament games. After my inner-jealous, green monster was done rearing it’s ugly head we moved on to exchanging emails about politics. Many links and personal analysis were shared.Tonight after watching the second part of a BBC News program on Community Led Total Sanitation (teaching third world countries how to properly defecate), I sent my dad an email about what I learned tonight; sent one last week too. The episode tonight was primarily about efforts in Ethiopia and a really cool thing called arborloos - shallow latrines that convert the poop to a  compost that is then used for planting trees. He thanked me and then shared more about his basketball experience, taunting me with his decision to go to Houston to see the next round of the NCAA tournament. I withheld pointing out the fact that I am winning the family basketball bracket.  Mom and I talk basketball and politics too, we just don’t talk poop. We’re classier than that. 

Mar 17

This is the time of year that I actually start to miss living in the States. Not because March is when the weather in Austin becomes mind-numbingly phenomenal, but because of March Madness, BAAAAA-BEEEE!

Since I was potty trained, I have made it to at least one basketball game a year. This is a streak that I am proud of. Basketball is family time, we are all fans. My dad and I being the far most obsessed. And this is the time of year that we fully succumb to that obsession. Rejoice in that obsession. Don’t even think of apologising for the obsession, but rather gloat over that obsession. We love our college basketball and tournament time.

When I was at SMU, I was the first in the family to start attending the conference tournaments. Then I got my parents involved. When the Big-12 formed, my Dad was hooked and going to the tournaments with some of his friends. Once I switched jobs and my schedule opened up, I was allowed to attend the Big-12 tournaments with my Dad and his friends. Father-daughter bonding in its craziest, most funnest form. And man do I miss it. My Dad and his friend Dick, a former basketball player, had worked out the 4 days of the conference tournament in to well-oiled, smooth moving, schedule of perfection.

Thursday - Either arrive in town in time for the first game, or meet at hotel restaurant for breakfast. Then attend first two games of the day. Depending on site of the tourney, length of time between day and night session, rush out to get food away from the basketball arena. Go back to arena after dinner and watch two more games. Finish about 10 pm. Head back to hotel’s sports bar, or other location showing west coast basketball games. Watch games on ESPN or ESPN2 while consuming 1 or 2 adult, fermented beverages. Adult beverages are needed to wash down the ever so delicious junk food. (Especially if the tourney is in Kansas City and you can get that massive plate of nachos.) Cheer for some team that you’ve never paid attention to before like, Boise St, Idaho St, or some other small school with state at the end of the name. Eventually head back to rooms and finish watching whatever games are being broadcast before passing out into a basketball-overdose induced coma.

Friday - repeat Thursday, except with better games.

Saturday - sleep in. Only two games today. Unless the women’s tournament is being held nearby and there is a good final game, then attend three games. Games usually end early enough to go out to an Italian restaurant for a very good dinner. Then back to hotel to see if there are any other games still on ESPN or ESPN2.

Sunday - Again sleep in a bit. If the tourney is in Dallas, take in a museum. You know, just to try to see if the other areas of your brain are still alive. Then attend the final game. If the tournament is in Dallas, go to restaurant where we can get dinner while watching the CBS selection show and fill out our brackets before heading home. If tourney is in Kansas City, hope that a sports broadcaster is on the same flight home and will call out the brackets during the flight. If neither option works, call Mom to get the brackets.

Sunday night, arrive home thinking “basketball rules.”

And to take March Madness to the next level, there are tickets to the NCAA tournament involved. If very lucky, Thursday or Friday attend the first round somewhere in Texas and spend another day watching 4 games. Take one day off and then watch two more. If only lucky, wait one week and go to the sweet 16 located somewhere in Texas. Watch 2 games Thursday or Friday, take one day off and then watch the elite 8 game. If extremely lucky, wait two weeks (unless you are my Dad and go off to see Texas play some of it’s early games) and go to the FINAL FOUR somewhere in Texas. Wallow in fact that most other college basketball fans have to watch these games at home.

Oh how I miss March Madness and my family’s ability to ensure that the madness part is appropriately named.

Mar 04

My last two nights in Sydney, I stayed with some American friends of mine. Turns out that David and I were in the same new hire class, but we never knew each other until we were in Sydney. By Tuesday their 3 1/2 year old daughter was happy to have me in their house. I was almost like a new toy.

Mid-morning I was sitting in the guest room, trying to figure out how I was going to get all my stuff back in my suitcase. Alana stood in the doorway and started to talking to me. While standing in the doorway, she started to tell me all about the baby in her mommy’s tummy. After a little while she asked me if she could come and sit on the bed so we could talk. Of course she could. And talk we did. Alana pointed out the picture of her parents wedding.

A: That’s my parents wedding picture.
Me: Yes, that is very nice.
A: I was in mommy’s tummy (Voice yelling from far down the hallway)
Denise: No you weren’t. You weren’t in my tummy until 4 months later. FOUR MONTHS LATER.
Me (laughing hysterically): Don’t ever say that to your grandparents.
A: I wasn’t there?
D: No. You weren’t in my tummy until 4 months after daddy and I got married.

Alana thinks for a bit, then asks: Where was I?

Denise and I giggle, look at each other and giggle some more.
D: You were just a twinkle in your daddy’s eye.
Alana looks at the picture again: So I wasn’t at the wedding?
D: You weren’t around yet. You were still just a twinkle in your dad’s eye. If you were around you would have been at the wedding.
A: I was a twinkle in daddy’s eye?
Me: Yes, see that sparkle there?
A: I was a twinkle. Then I got in mommy’s tummy.

— A little later…while discussing that I used to work with her dad

A: I go to preschool while my dad works
A: What is my teachers name?
Me: I don’t know your teacher.
A: Oh
Me: Do you like preschool?
A: Yes it’s fun. We get to play and sing silly songs.
Me: Ah yes. I liked preschool too.
A: You went to preschool?
Me: Yes. When I was little like you.
A: You were little?
Me: Yes. I was little too, but then I got older.
A: What is getting older?
Me (only being able to think, “you know, get older”): Uhhh, before I had birthdays and grew up.
A: You liked preschool?
Me: We had a giant sandbox. It wasn’t on the ground, just on a table. So we could only put our hands in it to play.
A: Mmmm
Me: Do you have a lot of friends?
A: Yes. Did you?
Me: Yes. And I had a boyfriend. He followed me around everywhere. He only did what I told him to do. Do you have a boyfriend?
A: Yes.
Me: What is his name?
A: I don’t know. But he is the one with the sisters.
Me: What makes him your boyfriend?
A (matter of factly): He is my boyfriend.

— Later in the day Alana asks me if we can go back into my room, sit on the bed and talk some more.

Me: Only if I can pack while we talk.
A: Oh yes.
A: How are you going to get all of that back in?
Me: I think it might take magic. It should fit, it was all in the case when I got here.
A: Yeah. That’s going to take magic. It won’t fit.
Me: What did you learn in ballet today?
A: We did this (pointing feet) and this (lifting leg) and I got a star.
Me: You got a star?
A: Yes. I was good so I got a star. But I took it off because it was looking worn. I don’t want a worn star.
Me: No worn stars aren’t good.
A: I like bats.
Me (trying to keep up): You like bats?
A: Yes. The things that fly around. I like them.
Me: Have you seen the bats they have here in Sydney? They are big. Much bigger than Austin bats. A: No, I don’t like the big bats. I like little bats.

And then we played barbie.